This isn't what you want to hear but you can't tell her not to see him. Just because your having a baby with his brother doesn't make them related. And how else do you get to know someone other than hanging out with them? Sorry if this all came off as rude. As far as telling her I think it would be a little different if you and bf were married?
Maybe she doesn't see him as family cause you guys aren't.
I agree with pp, they are both adults and it's not really your place to tell her who she can and cannot see. I don't mean to be rude, I don't want you to be offended, but I really think you should stay out of it. If she's as impulsive as you say, maybe it won't last, but then again maybe it will.
Just let it play out and try to be respectful. That's the thing I have tried to be cool with it and be happy for them but I still don't like Dating your sister in laws brother. My boyfriend and I are going to get married too.
Also their family finds it weird too so I'm not the only one feeling this way I would definitely find it weird too. I think you can tell her that. But at the end of the day if she said its something special and wants to make a go of it, you got to let her make her own choice. But she should know how you feel.
It's hit or miss in this situation. They may fall in love and be perfect for each other. On the other hand, after a while she may decide to leave and break his heart and he ll resent you for it. Ya she asked me what I thought of it when they first met an even though I didn't like the idea I said yes. I wish I would have told her how I really felt at the beginning because maybe it would have stopped then It is not weird at all!
You guys would not be the first sisters to date brothers. My mom's brother married my Dad's sister and no body thought it was weird because they weren't related and that was 30 years ago!
I wonder if maybe you have a problem with the relationship itself and not necessarily the fact that its ur BF brother. Please don't think I am being rude but I am truly baffled that your family thinks that two sisters dating two brothers from a different family is weird Also honestly I do not fine it weird eve n if you were married they are not related and Dating your sister in laws brother will be family memebers of blood or any deep connection I mean you will marry his brother your family is not marrying his family so there is no deeper connection then your marriage so even if they get married it still not weird in the context.
Speaking from personal experience, even if you had said no, she may have done it anyway.
It seems to be the norm. You tell someone not to do something or that you don't like a certain situation, and they do it anyway. You can tell her how you really feel about the situation, but don't expect to get the result you want.
Let things flow naturally. If both families think its strange then you should let your parents or his say something. But the only thing you really can do is say If something goes wrong you don't wanna hear it from either side and they can't make things awkward for the families when they get together. You just got to wish the best of luck. Maybe they will be be tgt for a very long time or it's just one of those relationships.
You are her sister so you would probably feel that way and feel weir because maybe I will too. But remember, it's not wrong, just uncomfortable situation. Let her know but don't come off as you don't want them together or ban her from seeing him.
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Let her know it's just make you uncomfortable and maybe she will tell you what's really going On. Exact same boat here as far as my sis dating my BIL. The only thing I don't like is that whenever I'm frustrated w my hubby i feel like I can't Dating your sister in laws brother anything to my sis for fear she will mention it to my BIL! Besides she is not related to his bro in any way and as an adult is free to date who she pleases.
If they have been hanging out for 6 weeks, they may know each other pretty well.
Your reaction makes me wonder about you having some jealousy or rivalry with your sis?! I don't see it as weird I have seen and heard plenty of stories like that, like twins marrying brothers. I think your taking it way to personal if she is happy let her be!! Things will work out how they are suppose to.
I have 2 aunts that married brothers and while at first it may have been kind of strange now no one thinks any differently of it.
But I understand where your feelings are coming from. However I would just keep it to myself. If you say anything you may bring them closer if they feel people are against them.
Or if they get married it could cause tension between the families. Archived Discussion This discussion is archived and locked for posting See active discussions on December Babies. So my sister met my brother in-law for the first time about 1. And the first night they met they hung out all night flirting. I though it would be just a Dating your sister in laws brother fling, he has three kids with his ex and she is young and spontaneous always wanting to do these crazy things travel and move around.
When I first caught them flirting I was offended. They have been hanging out every day. She has been staying at his house most of the time, with his kids I am honestly not okay with it and don't know how to tell my sister. I wish I could be happy because they are happy but it's just weird. They don't really even know each other and it's kind of gross.
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